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Comment on Living Your Life in the Public Eye by Dani-TuFF

Dani-TuFF — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 05:31:28 +0000

We are our own Universes… one + one = two

Comment on Do You Have Any REAL Friends? by Serenity

Serenity — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 03:09:11 +0000

I couldn’t agree more. It’s the same between two close friends who do everything together. If one meets a new person and starts spending time that use to be given to the first with the other, the other may start to feel jealous and resentful towards the newcomer. I guess we need to know how to prove to our mates that we are still there and that they still have all our love even if there is someone else who gets some of our time. And I think in a healthy relationship, that partner would have to accept that and understand that it’s okay for you or for them to have a friend that isn’t each other. Like you said, it allows us to keep a sense of self and probably even makes us appreciate our mates more when we can take a step away and come back at a later time.

Comment on Do You Have Any REAL Friends? by Vita

Vita — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 18:16:28 +0000

I’m glad that this topic has been addressed because it brings up alot of good points to think about. Like if you’re in a relationship but you don’t have any friends but you want some, then why don’t you have any? I think that that point you made about making your “BOO” your all is so true. When you and your mate become one to the point were others are not included it does become more of a challenge to be an individual. It causes conflict when ever one of the partners try to bring or introduce another person into the equation. It may even bring up feelings of recentment or jealousy. Its a thin line between friendship and a relationship and some people can’t determine or figure out were that line is. What we have to do is ask ourselves what is a true friend to me? What is a friend? What is a way that I can be a friend and do I want to be friends with this one or that one? We also need to understand that a true friend and a friend are two different things. Who are we and what do we want from the next person? Once we have determined or figured out these answers then it maybe easier to find what we are looking for in a friendship or a relationship.

Comment on eHarmony Is The New Arranged Marriage by Serenity

Serenity — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 13:44:03 +0000

I completely agree. Your partner should also be your good, if not, best friend. And it may seem logically to look for that person within your group of friends. Problem is, most ppl don’t know how to balance a relationship that once was just a friendship and end up ruining both. Not to mention that though you love your friends and you all accept one another like no other, sometimes you can’t make that mental switch from friend to romantic attraction. But if you can, or are willing to try, I think it starts your relationship with a great foundation.

Comment on Do You Have Any REAL Friends? by Serenity

Serenity — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 13:38:40 +0000

haha, I know what you mean. Easier said then done right. But I’m your bud, right!

Comment on eHarmony Is The New Arranged Marriage by Dee

Dee — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 06:05:48 +0000

I feel u on this cuz physically atraction can blind u in to thinking that it is love when it isnt and most times ppl dont realize that the person they r searching for is right in Front of there face but it is because this person did not meet the superfical standards set american society that takes years and some ppl still never realize it..

Comment on Living Your Life in the Public Eye by Dee

Dee — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 05:42:19 +0000

U jus pick ya self up try to move on and take life one step at a time anf i know cuz the plans once had for 2 was changed and yes it hurt like hell but the best thing for u to do is to stay strong and jus knw thatthe one for u is out there some jus waiting for the day that they will meet u…. And u dont know how ta tell u to take plans mad for two and make them plans for one except face the plans as they come dont try ta change them all at once or u will have them on ya mind and start to think of u and them

Comment on Do You Have Any REAL Friends? by Dee

Dee — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 05:21:14 +0000

I when u find answer to this let me no cuz i am looking for answer

Comment on If You Kiss, Should You Tell – Confessing to Cheating by Olley D.

Olley D. — Sun, 30 Aug 2009 23:44:54 +0000

Thanks for writing this great blog I really enjoyed.

Comment on Don’t Get in a Relationship If You’re Not Ready to Commit for Life by Serenity

Serenity — Wed, 05 Aug 2009 00:20:53 +0000

No, not confusing at all! You actually said what I was trying to say in a lot less words! haha Thank you for your comment! I hope to hear more from you soon!